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Favorite Lyrics:

(I looked over to the left)
Umm I was looking so good I couldn’t reject myself
(I looked over to the left)
Umm I was feeling so good I had to touch myself
(I looked over to the left)
Umm I was eyein my thighs butter pecan brown
(I looked over to the left)
Umm comin outta my shirt and then the skirt came down

Final Thoughts:

This has got to be one of my favorite sexual songs released by women! I love that this song is all about masturbation, being attracted to yourself, and taking your pleasure in your own hands; literally. I’ve always been an advocate for masturbation; it’s important to know how to pleasure yourself but also to take time to de-stress. The better you know your own body, the better you can please it.

Answers!

Good morning, darlings!
It’s question and answer time!

 

Where can I get a good flogger not a garbage one?

 

We carry lots of different styles of floggers at our locations but if you are looking for a nice balanced one with weight then I would look at the James Deen “Under my Control” flogger that we sell for $49.95. The James Deen flogger gives the promise of pain that will leave your partner breathless in anticipation. Passionately swing the Realistic Leather falls to deliver a firm crack that will send your partner into submissive ecstasy. The luxurious Realistic Suede-wrapped handle includes a Black wrist strap, making it easy to maneuver and keep firmly in-hand.

 

I’m 15, how can I buy condoms without my mom knowing? None of my friends want to get involved. I live in a small town where EVERYONE knows everyone.. so everyone knows me and everyone knows my family. They would tell my grandparents and my mom if I went in to the gas station to buy condoms! I also can’t drive yet so I can’t drive to another area to buy them. What can I do?
First off I’m glad that your using condoms and trying to be safe because no matter what age you are you need to be protected. If you are sure that your mom won’t help you purchase condoms then I would speak to your doctor and let him know that you want to be safe but don’t know how to go about getting them; many doctors office’s have condoms. The second option is to go to your local pharmacy and ask the pharmacist to ring them in for you beneath the counter so that no one see’s your purchase. There is a certain confidentiality that must be followed by professionals so that would be the route I would go. However sex is something that you should discuss with your mother, if you’re not ready yet try to keep in mind that your mother was young once too and most likely understands. Pregnancy is the least of today’s problems STI’s are what you need to be careful about and most parents will want to keep you protected if they can’t keep you from having sex.  Good luck darling <3 e-mail us at info@ourpleasure.ca if you need any more help.

Weekly Q & A

Dear darlings,
Do you have a burning question that you’re too shy to ask?
Have something that has been on your mind for ages but you don’t quite know how to say it? If you’re alive and you’re human, you probably have questions about sex.  The truth is, no one can know everything there is to know about sex and sexuality.  Here at Our Pleasure, we learn new things every day! We are not doctors or relationship gurus, but we will try our best to give you the best advice we can give!

Leave all your questions about sex, sexuality, sexual health, birth control, STI’s, and relationships here and we’ll answer them each Wednesday! We’ll try to answer three questions, if we don’t get to yours this week, don’t fear, we’ll just carry it over to next week!

(If you don’t want to leave your real email address, you don’t have to.  No problem!  Simply type in a fake email address)

Dildo vs Dong

A lot of people ask us what the difference is between a dildo and a dong so here’s a mini 101 on dildos and dongs! A dildo has a base, whether its testicles or a flared base and a dong does not. An easy way to remember this is; a Dil-Do have a base and on a dong it’s gone. Ill also note that neither of these items vibrates.

A dong is a great choice for masturbation or for use on a partner. The sizes vary just as much as the human penis does and you can get them in any sorts of shapes and colors.

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This one here is an 8” Crystal Jelly and even though its pink it is very life like in shape. The head of the penis is shaped out here on top and all these grooves are the veins. Now obviously a real penis wouldn’t have veins bulging out like that but it defiantly makes for added stimulation on this toy. Some people use these to practice oral gratification or to use vaginally but you should NEVER use this toy anally. Because it does not have any base to it, it would be very easy to lose this up inside the rectum and have a very embarrassing trip to the emergency room!

Dildos on the other hand are good for anal use because of their base. A lot of them, like this one here are strap on compatible.

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So with a dildo you get all the great features of a dong with just a few more added. Now this one here is actually made of pyrex glass. Glass is very safe to use, hypoallergenic, and a great alternatives for people who have allergies to latex or other materials. Since there are no pores in the glass they are extremely easy to clean and will not form any kind of build up if cleaned with toy cleaner after every use, because of this glass toys can last a lifetime and be used over and over again. Another great feature of them is that they will not become tacky or gummy overtime so you can use as much lubrication as you want, whenever you want! Glass is compatible with silicone and water based lubricant so you can use whatever you want! The best feature about glass however is its ability to heat and cool. You can fill a bowl full of cold water and place the toy in it, or the refrigerator to give it a cool feeling for those warm summer nights, or heat it through hot water or the microwave to make it warm on a cold winters night. There are no other toys that we carry that have this ability and makes your toy multipurpose so it always feels like a new and exciting experience.

XoXo Darlings,

Asia

 

How many Licks?

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Favorite Lyrics:

Some ****** even put me on their grocery lists
Right next to the whip cream and box of chocolates
Designer pussy, my shit come in flavors
High-class taste ******* got to spend paper
Lick it right the first time or you gotta do it over
Like it’s rehearsal for a Tootsie commercial

Final Thoughts:

Well I mean I would feel irresponsible if I didn’t include this song in my list. If you’re my age, or older you’ve got to know this song. I mean I remember hearing this song when it first came out and thinking oh dear gentle jesus lol I was 12 and it was all over the radio. I actually remember having sex for the first time listening to this at 13. I mean seriously there are SO many songs from women asking their men to ‘get down’ so men here is my question; Are you listening? Women; if he doesn’t go down do you stay around?

Answers!

Good morning, darlings!
It’s question and answer time!

What are your favorite love songs before Valentines Day and Why?

 Well darling we all know I have a soft spot for sappy music so lets ask some store managers!

Topsail Road:

I knew I loved my husband the moment I met him so we choose this as our wedding song, I love it.

Duckworth St

When I was a little girl my nan used to play this song for me and tell me that I should never settle for less then someone I could not live without. So even though I’m single this Valentines day I know that someone out there is someone that I will always love :)

Corner Brook:

My partner of the past almost 24 yrs doesn’t express himself well with words but in actions he does.

Weekly Q & A

Dear darlings,
Do you have a burning question that you’re too shy to ask?
Have something that has been on your mind for ages but you don’t quite know how to say it? If you’re alive and you’re human, you probably have questions about sex.  The truth is, no one can know everything there is to know about sex and sexuality.  Here at Our Pleasure, we learn new things every day! We are not doctors or relationship gurus, but we will try our best to give you the best advice we can give!

Leave all your questions about sex, sexuality, sexual health, birth control, STI’s, and relationships here and we’ll answer them each Wednesday! We’ll try to answer three questions, if we don’t get to yours this week, don’t fear, we’ll just carry it over to next week!

(If you don’t want to leave your real email address, you don’t have to.  No problem!  Simply type in a fake email address)

When is the right time to give it up?

 

When you start dating someone new the question arises, when do you have sex? When do you get in bed with someone for the first time? Let’s be honest, when you find someone attractive you analyze them and how you think they’d be in bed. We choose who to date based on what we find attractive. Eventually we know that we’re going to end up dating the person, but what makes you feel likeyou’re ready or not ready to sleep with the person?
There are certain pressures put on us women by society to wait, don’t give it up or you’re ‘easy’. For various reasons; religious, moral, social, people

believe that women who have sex with a stranger or someone they haven’t known long are ‘sluts’. Some men won’t take a girl seriously or consider her ‘date-able’ if she gives it up too easily, but if they are willing to sleep with her isn’t it the same thing? Why do we put so much stock into what other people think about us and our sexual lives? I used to believe that it shouldn’t matter what other people think only what you think and when you feel ready but there is a simple consideration that makes it easier; ask your partner.

Since I’ve been back in the dating world I’ve realized that sex can either make or break a new relationship. When I dated women I don’t remember having this intense pressure on me to choose when to sleep with them, it was more of a mutual thing. However with men I feel like its my choice, they’re ready whenever so if I give it up too soon I’m a slut and if I wait too long I’m a wet blanket. I have to admit dating men now feels worse then it did 10 years ago when I stopped.

To be honest last night I asked Kirk (the guys Ive dated a little bit) when it was acceptable to have sex without him thinking I’m easy. I honestly didn’t know any other way to go about it then to outright tell him that I didn’t turn him down because I didn’t want to have sex but because I want to make sure it doesn’t end what we’re doing. Apparently we’ve reached the point where he is fine having sex without it meaning that I’m too easy but I’m going to make him wait a few more days for extra measure! Lol.

In the end the choice of when to have sex is always in your hands and no one else’s. You have to be comfortable in your decision no matter what one you made but it does make it a little easier if you have the input of the other person. If you don’t feel comfortable asking them in person, ask in a text. Once everyone is on the same page it makes things a little easier.

Happy fun sex time darlings <3

Asia

One Night Stand

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Favorite Lyrics:

Everywhere I go, the people wanna make some time with me.
That’s okay, if the next day I can be free.
Well, it’s feelin’ good and you’re the one I’m lovin’ tonight,
Well, don’t you go and spoil it, babe, by trying to get yourself all uptight.

Final Thoughts: 

I’m actually DISGUSTED that I’ve never heard this song before! Thank God one of my lovely readers messaged this to me after the ‘Get on Your Knee’s’ post! All I can say is that this song was WAY before its time. Released on the album ‘Farewell Song’ in 1982 this song is all about sex without love, sex without emotion, sex without commitment. This is such a powerful song for me after hearing it because I am a firm believer in the emotionless sex. If you can separate sex from emotion then theres no reason not to share the pleasure ;)

Thoughts?

XoXo

Asia