Answers!

Good morning, darlings!
It’s question and answer time!

 

so, just wondering, me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 2 months now, things have been happening alot lately, and i was wondering if its too soon to be thinkin bout sex.. 

i’m almost 17 and a virgin and hes not pressuring me or anything, i brought it up first

Well darling if you are questioning if it’s too soon then I would wait. I lost my virginity when I was 13 and not to sound cliché but I still wish that I had of saved it until I was older and more capable of making the decision. Once you give your virginity to someone its gone; you don’t get another chance so you want to make sure it’s with someone that you care for. My first experience was with a guy I dated for a little bit and then realized I didn’t like. If your partner is not pressuring you then maybe you should wait until you’re both sure; keep in mind that it’s his decision as well. I’m not telling you to make sure he’s the “one” but make sure he’s the one you want to lose your virginity to because you will remember him for the rest of your life. There’s nothing wrong with waiting; you’ve got your whole life to experience the sexual side of things; enjoy being young.

 

The wife and I were eating out with a few friends. And they spoke about a drug called “thizz” from research i guess it’s just another name of ectasy. I guess on this Thizz, one goes for many hours having sex due to it makes the sensitivity of sex more pleasurable i guess. Well knowing that it’s close to ectasy, it scares me. So what drug would do basically that. Or is “thizz” not as bad as ectasy? 

Ok so I’ve looked online to see what this “thizz” drug is and to be honest I knew it was a bad idea as soon as I read your question. Thizz is a pill containing MDMA and often combinations of other drugs such as caffeine, speed, etc. Typically sold in colored tablets with a printed logo it is essentially ecstasy with additives. I’ve never understood why people take illegal drugs to have crazy sex when you can just have crazy sex sober. If you need something to help you perform in the bedroom then I would recommend talking to your doctor about Viagra or Cialis. We also carry a product called Forta which works naturally with your body to increase the male hormone for sperm production. It also stimulates the body naturally and improves blood flow. Forta will also improve your response time, resulting in quick, strong, and more frequent erections for a fortified sexual performance. If you are thinking of trying a pill enhancement I would give Forta a try, not only is it legal; it’s cheaper to!

 

Hope this helps :)

Asia

Weekly Q & A

Dear darlings,
Do you have a burning question that you’re too shy to ask?
Have something that has been on your mind for ages but you don’t quite know how to say it? If you’re alive and you’re human, you probably have questions about sex.  The truth is, no one can know everything there is to know about sex and sexuality.  Here at Our Pleasure, we learn new things every day! We are not doctors or relationship gurus, but we will try our best to give you the best advice we can give!

Leave all your questions about sex, sexuality, sexual health, birth control, STI’s, and relationships here and we’ll answer them each Wednesday! We’ll try to answer three questions, if we don’t get to yours this week, don’t fear, we’ll just carry it over to next week!

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Good morning, darlings!
It’s question and answer time!

 

Where can I get a good flogger not a garbage one?

 

We carry lots of different styles of floggers at our locations but if you are looking for a nice balanced one with weight then I would look at the James Deen “Under my Control” flogger that we sell for $49.95. The James Deen flogger gives the promise of pain that will leave your partner breathless in anticipation. Passionately swing the Realistic Leather falls to deliver a firm crack that will send your partner into submissive ecstasy. The luxurious Realistic Suede-wrapped handle includes a Black wrist strap, making it easy to maneuver and keep firmly in-hand.

 

I’m 15, how can I buy condoms without my mom knowing? None of my friends want to get involved. I live in a small town where EVERYONE knows everyone.. so everyone knows me and everyone knows my family. They would tell my grandparents and my mom if I went in to the gas station to buy condoms! I also can’t drive yet so I can’t drive to another area to buy them. What can I do?
First off I’m glad that your using condoms and trying to be safe because no matter what age you are you need to be protected. If you are sure that your mom won’t help you purchase condoms then I would speak to your doctor and let him know that you want to be safe but don’t know how to go about getting them; many doctors office’s have condoms. The second option is to go to your local pharmacy and ask the pharmacist to ring them in for you beneath the counter so that no one see’s your purchase. There is a certain confidentiality that must be followed by professionals so that would be the route I would go. However sex is something that you should discuss with your mother, if you’re not ready yet try to keep in mind that your mother was young once too and most likely understands. Pregnancy is the least of today’s problems STI’s are what you need to be careful about and most parents will want to keep you protected if they can’t keep you from having sex.  Good luck darling <3 e-mail us at info@ourpleasure.ca if you need any more help.

Weekly Q & A

Dear darlings,
Do you have a burning question that you’re too shy to ask?
Have something that has been on your mind for ages but you don’t quite know how to say it? If you’re alive and you’re human, you probably have questions about sex.  The truth is, no one can know everything there is to know about sex and sexuality.  Here at Our Pleasure, we learn new things every day! We are not doctors or relationship gurus, but we will try our best to give you the best advice we can give!

Leave all your questions about sex, sexuality, sexual health, birth control, STI’s, and relationships here and we’ll answer them each Wednesday! We’ll try to answer three questions, if we don’t get to yours this week, don’t fear, we’ll just carry it over to next week!

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Good morning, darlings!
It’s question and answer time!

What are your favorite love songs before Valentines Day and Why?

 Well darling we all know I have a soft spot for sappy music so lets ask some store managers!

Topsail Road:

I knew I loved my husband the moment I met him so we choose this as our wedding song, I love it.

Duckworth St

When I was a little girl my nan used to play this song for me and tell me that I should never settle for less then someone I could not live without. So even though I’m single this Valentines day I know that someone out there is someone that I will always love :)

Corner Brook:

My partner of the past almost 24 yrs doesn’t express himself well with words but in actions he does.

Weekly Q & A

Dear darlings,
Do you have a burning question that you’re too shy to ask?
Have something that has been on your mind for ages but you don’t quite know how to say it? If you’re alive and you’re human, you probably have questions about sex.  The truth is, no one can know everything there is to know about sex and sexuality.  Here at Our Pleasure, we learn new things every day! We are not doctors or relationship gurus, but we will try our best to give you the best advice we can give!

Leave all your questions about sex, sexuality, sexual health, birth control, STI’s, and relationships here and we’ll answer them each Wednesday! We’ll try to answer three questions, if we don’t get to yours this week, don’t fear, we’ll just carry it over to next week!

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Good morning, darlings!
It’s question and answer time!

 

Can masturbation make it harder for a woman to get pregnant when the time comes to have kids?

There are a lot of storys out there that say how unhealthy masturbation is; that it causes hairy palms, rotting genitals, dead kittens, etc but it still amazes me with the things that people come up to prevent others from masturbating. Self love is a completely healthy, natural part of life that has medical and sexual benefits for                                                                            all people. Heres a few;

  1. Masturbation lowers blood pressured and produces eendorphin’s which are responsible for helping ease stress and increase relaxation. In other words it helps you sleep.
  1. Masturbation relieves cramps and increases blood flow to ease pain in the pelvic area. So if your a female and having some crampy time ditch the hot water bottle and use a toy instead!

  1. Toxins build up in the urogenital tract, leading to disease but masturbation helps to flush those toxins out of the body, making men who ejaculate more than five times a week a third less likely to develop prostate cancer.

4. Lets look back at the toxins in the urinary tract for a second. Masturbation helps flush old bacteria from the cervix helping to prevent UTI’s and infections.

  1. How can you possibly know what you like if you don’t touch yourself? Self love is so important and helps you become more in-tune with yourself.

So don’t worry darling there is no correlation between masturbation and infertility.

Hope this helped,

Asia

Weekly Q & A

Dear darlings,
Do you have a burning question that you’re too shy to ask?
Have something that has been on your mind for ages but you don’t quite know how to say it? If you’re alive and you’re human, you probably have questions about sex.  The truth is, no one can know everything there is to know about sex and sexuality.  Here at Our Pleasure, we learn new things every day! We are not doctors or relationship gurus, but we will try our best to give you the best advice we can give!

Leave all your questions about sex, sexuality, sexual health, birth control, STI’s, and relationships here and we’ll answer them each Wednesday! We’ll try to answer three questions, if we don’t get to yours this week, don’t fear, we’ll just carry it over to next week!

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Good morning, lovers! It’s time for Bond’s
question & answer <3

Is there such a thing as “too slutty”?

That’s a rather loaded and vague question. Too slutty for what? It also depends on your definition of slutty. If we assume that the definition of slutty is an individual who has had many sexual partners then I would have to say it’s a choice of lifestyle. And of course we can’t ignore the misogynistic double standard that woman are more commonly labeled as slutty where as men are labeled as players. Like I said, it’s a very loaded question.

Some men might have some concerns about dating a woman who has had many sexual partners. They might not agree with that lifestyle or they might be concerned about STI’s. Weather you practice safer sex or not, more partners means more risk. Anyone engaged in this sort of lifestyle should get tested on a regular basis.

On the flip side, there are men who prefer a woman with experience.

 

If your mother started an argument with me, whose side would you be on and why do men always take their mothers side?

Girlfriends come and go, but moms are forever. That’s the short answer.

Personally I can’t ever see my mother putting me in an awkward position like that. My mother would have the good sense to broach the subject in a sensitive manner rather than cause a scene. But for those guys out there that aren’t lucky enough to have an awesome mom like me then I suggest those men defuse the situation and try to find a compromise rather than pick sides. Nobody likes a momma’s boy.

 

Do you hate it when we ask you to kill the bugs or does it secretly make you feel kind of macho?

I prefer to leave them be or toss them outside rather than squatting them and making a mess. But I suppose it’s good to feel needed even if it’s for something as trivial as getting rid of the big bad scary spider in the corner. Men might complain and poke fun at you for it but secretly most of them love it.

 

Ever yours,

Bond

Weekly Q & A

Dear darlings,
Do you have a burning question that you’re too shy to ask?
Have something that has been on your mind for ages but you don’t quite know how to say it? If you’re alive and you’re human, you probably have questions about sex.  The truth is, no one can know everything there is to know about sex and sexuality.  Here at Our Pleasure, we learn new things every day! We are not doctors or relationship gurus, but we will try our best to give you the best advice we can give!

Leave all your questions about sex, sexuality, sexual health, birth control, STI’s, and relationships here and we’ll answer them each Wednesday! We’ll try to answer three questions, if we don’t get to yours this week, don’t fear, we’ll just carry it over to next week!

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